clit piercings, nipple, tongue,penis,enhances your sex life? sex, clit, orgasm

i have thought about getting my clit and nipples pierced a few times, i watched a friend of mine get hers done and i thought and asked myself..why? CLIT...it looks hella painful, for one it becomes a wound, so you have to clean it constantly to make sure its not infected, secondly, do you wear underwear during the time its healing? how does it feel? because a wound neeeds air for it to heal, so what do you do? and when you want sex during this healing process do you do it or sit and wait a few months so that it can heal?

 -next issue i was wondering about, does it really enhance your sex life? dont you lose sensitivity in that area after awhile? NIPPLES.. my cousin has both nipples pierced, dont know how the hell she did that cuz i got bit on the nipple by my daughter and i felt like slappin her! so yea it looks like it hurt like a mafuka! so my question is..doesnt that always hurt? and how is that pleasurable? because it doesnt seem like it will ever heal! how is it pleasurable my cousin dont even let people touch hers, and dont you lose sensitivity in the nipples too? i love gettin my nipples sucked that shit turns me on like a pipe so idont know how that would work, yet ive thought about gettin it done! TONGUE..yea this one is a fav among dam near everybody! the healing process doesnt seem long, my homegirl had hers done she was suckin on ice the first night, she said her tongue felt heavy, but didnt feel much pain, my issue with this is, theres a hole in ur tongue! u eat food constantly, food has to get trapped in there, on top of that, the mouth carries the most germs ot of the entire parts of the body so isnt that kind of unsanitary? and how do you clean it? how do you make sure your breath dont smell like you just ate a dirty asshole? i read that it provides awesome pleasure..ive read that when used for oral sex, the ring will add presure, to tease and please your partner, its even more pleasurable on the clit, now can you imagina the explosion that would take place if the tongue ring hits the clit ring and gets tangled up together? PENIS.. ive never met any one that has a dick ring i know nothing about it..i must research this one! lol!  whats the purpose of having the hood of your dick pierced? who gets pleasure from it? this post isnt to offend or judge anyone just to make that clear..if you all know i judge no one.. we just want a clear understanding of it all..we explore and share! let the discussion begin! oh and the pics are just for visual effect! lol!

rant #1...today was my first day of class at the broward college..it was my general computer knowledge class yea its bullshit some might say but i dont think so..theres alot i dont know about a computer so im glad im taking it..class starts at 9 am..ends 1145 am..anyway we in class im in the front row..(i always sit in the front row of my classes, no back seater here) anyway so im sitting in the front row..people slowly start to stroll in..we get to the introduction section..the instructor asks us to just say our name n our major..i do mine and everyone else do theirs and so on..so im listening to everyone say their names n majors..then this woman in the back says 'i dont know what my major is yet..and ive been going to this school for 5 years now' huh? what? i had to look at the instructor and ask her if i heard correctly! i said 'did she just say 5 years? isnt this a 2 year 3 maximum college?' my instructor says she gna have to put a padlock on my mouth! lmao! but wtf! how u gna b goin to a 2 year college for 5 years now and still dont know what your going there for? how the hell does that work? then she got the nerve to go sit all the way in the back of the class! no wonder her ass cant graduate! some might say im hard on people or im a bitch but i call it like i see it..theres a little bot in the class too..hes still in high school..hes a tenth grader..i was pleasantly surprised that a high school kid would want to come to school on saturdays instead of hanging out at the mall with their girlfriends or ride skateboards or whatever the hell these younguns do! he doesnt know what he wants to major in yet but he has alot of time...then theres this woman..this woman wasin the class for half hour and didnt know she was in the wrong fucking class! how the hell do you let that happen! then she was scared to go to her rightful class..she was acting like a child i swear i was waiting for her to ask the teacher to take her there..smh..oh and my teacher is jamaican! lol! i was cracking on her all day! lmao!! she said im a trouble maker! haha! yea im goin to enjoy this class..more to come! that is all for now!

how soon is it ok for us to start having sex? what age? is it best to start out giving oral sex than having penetration? what age would you start giving your child 'the talk'? how would you go about it? would you have any fears? would you give any of your experiences? did your parents give you 'the talk?' how did you feel? how did that conversation start and end? did you learn anything from it or you just got confused? its our world lets explore it!

happy new year!!

my first question has many parts...why are we here? what is the meaning of life? how did we come into existence? do you believe that we will all die out some day and the earth will no longer exist? why?